Homage to Sei Shonagon
When reading Sei Shonagon's lists, one gets a sense of the truly restrictive society that she lived in. And yet, the women could on one hand be moved by such beauty and also be deeply petty. How much of the pettiness was due to the societal restrictions imposed and the very little power one did have, was to be fiercely guarded? This was not in the readings of the list, but from the actual pillow book and someone sneezed during her conversation with the Empress, and that was taken by the Empress as a sign that Sei Shonagon had lied (p. 190). Such a small thing, that could give such an impression. I think sometimes we perhaps do not notice the little things in life that can also cause such damage. Sei Shonagon was new to court and did not know how to reply to the Empress. I also think there are times that a little thing actually becomes so much larger in our own lives because we do not know how to deal with the situation. Honest, clear, and concise communication is becoming a ver...